Monday, June 23, 2008

Facebook does not rule.

I was waiting for the day when I would see pictures on Facebook of my soon to be ex-husband and another woman. Clearly together. He doesn't really have a lot of tact so I figured that was something he would post without hesitation, for all our friends to see.

The day has finally come.

It sucks a lot more than I thought it would.

13 comments:

erin said...

i got a lump in my throat when i read that.

is retaliation still uncool? because i can totally photoshop your body next to Justin Timberlake if that helps.

ps---i have no idea if Justin Timberlake is cool. He was just who came to mind when i thought "young and sweaty."

Working From Home Today said...

Damn.

Don't be afraid to block him. You can always say it's just for awhile, it's not personal, just need the space so you can move on, etc..

But otherwise, you're holding up beautifully, Ms. Homeowner, Proud Puppy Parent and General All-Around Conquerer of Various Complex Plumbing Problems.

notquiteawake said...

I think JT is cool. He's very much younger than me...which is now cool as well I guess. Photoshop away!
I actually deleted him as a friend. Not in a mean, vindictive way, but I really don't need to see any more of those. Plus we really weren't keeping in touch anyways so he probably won't even notice.

may-b said...

That sucks. It just effing sucks.

notquiteawake said...

Just to clarify my last comment, I personally don't think JT is cool, I meant it to read I THINK JT is cool. Just wanted to get that cleared up. I have started to enjoy his music though.....

Hildy said...

Been there, done that, designed and marketed the T-Shirt (I married a Chilean and all I got was a huge lump in my throat).

It gets better...trust me.

Schmutzie said...

I feel for you.
I like Working's suggestion. It's reasonable, and it'll save you from having to confront it every day.

notquiteawake said...

Hildy, I really should have listened to you in the first place!
No wait, it was a life experience, learned from it, blah blah. Ok.
I don't know how to block. But I deleted. Same thing?

notquiteawake said...

P.S. I'm doing fine and better. I just try not to think about it. And drink a lot.

Hildy said...

Ah hell, I should have listened to me, too...but I have a good one now. You'll get one, too - you're too awesome not to.

Anonymous said...

Do you think it would be a bad idea if I added him on my face book then blasted him with derogetory comments. The truth is I would really love to be in Regina right now. I think him posting pictures is dis-respectful to you and shows no class.

Your brother

notquiteawake said...

My brother, if that's what it takes to get you to come back to Regina then so be it.

Jodi - 35 and single (sigh) said...

That's crappy! I feel for you - glad to hear you deleted him. Time to wash that man right out of your hair... oh god, I'm quoting musicals. I really have turned into a gay man - it all started with comfortable shoes. Damn those comfy shoes - bring on the spikes, time to girl-up!